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- It is best not to say anything online about yourself. just state the benefits you get and state it as if you know a friend who was having that trouble.
- In this way you have 100% protection from gossip online. I recommend you do this because people are so judgmental, and I would want your lives to remain private, and not subject to other people’s gossip.
Example: (Mind manipualtion is used in various sex programs. My friend had this problem and he is making really great improvements in his behavior because of the following book: “Open to Bliss” by Omid Mankoo)
Many of the people who are struggling with lust, who make up your immediate and world environment, directly or indirectly affect you, your friends, family, and children’s lives. Thus, you helping to spread the message of this book allows the people who learn to apply this knowledge to free themselves from lust, benefits your life and the life of your loved ones in innumerable ways.
This is a smidgen of your time, but as a group we will reach a lot of people who really need it and it makes a world of positive change.
I have shared my complete success on sexual fixation by the gift of this book, DEDICATED TO YOU, so you can overcome this formidable perplexing mystery. Without this knowledge you are virtually helpless against it. Many others have heard about the book and are profoundly affected by its empowering knowledge. Recognize its potency and authenticity, and recognize how easily it is learned, and share the existence of this knowledge with others so everyone can make startling massively positive changes to their lives.
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Be conscious of your baffled state of mind as to the reasons for the powerful effects of sexual programs upon the mind, before I reveal the information. Once the knowledge is revealed, it will be obvious to you, and therefore the mind has a tendency to mistakenly think that it already knew the information. (because it is so obvious once you learn something) and therefore to underestimate what is being said. Had I not revealed it to you, you would still be completely baffled. I have chosen to give you this HUGE CHUNK of the knowledge for you to see that it is indeed potent, and for you to inquire further to get all of the information available in the book. The situation of me talking to you now, is as if I am standing on a plot of land with $3,000,000 worth of pure gold being buried 8 feet under ground. I put the Gold there, and not only did I bring you to the plot of land, to the exact spot where it is buried, but I also help you dig a little bit and say to you, look at this huge chunk of gold worth $500,000. I hand it to you as proof, that what I am telling you is really valuable. Would you dig those 8 feet? Meaning, will you read the 8 chapters? Need I remind you that with every foot (chapter) that you dig (read) you are collecting more gold (knowledge) that is of phenomenal use once applied to your life. the truth is the information is much more valuable than $3 million. One can take an hour ($100/hour) of daily counseling for 30 years and it still will not match what I have presenteed in this book.
Why it is important for YOUR LIFE to spread this knowledge: Society is made up of countless people. It is these people that make up your surroundings. The quality and type of interaction you will have with these people will depend on the type of awareness they have. Therefore the more you help to inform others of this knowledge for them to improve in mastering their mind and overcoming lust, the more positive and harmonious their encounters will be with you and with others they interact with. Thus, you are tremendously helping society advance in their knowledge and consciousness. you will be a world changer. These people are the shopkeepers, the restaurant-owners, bankers, and workers in every profession. You and your loved ones can encounter persons from the high ends to the average man or woman on the street. Society is made up of the numerous neighbors that live by you. They are on your television, radio & newspapers. They are the producers of these shows, they are members of the government and the police force, they are judges , and lawyers. It is these people and their children that get to date your daughter, that get to date your son, or whom you hope to marry , and or be friends with. quite naturally you will be encountering innumerable human beings of all walks of life during your lifetime. Therefore when you spread the freeing knowledge you help not only society and the world at large but also this benefits your personal life in innumerable ways.
- Fixation Damages:
- Waste of Hours
- Waste of Weeks
- Waste of Months
- Waste of Years
- Waste of Decades
- Waste of Lifetime
- Mind in Turmoil
- Divorced from Life
- Low/No Energy
- Low/No Immunity
- Low/No Ambition
- Living an Illusion
- Lower achievement
- Job in Jeopardy
- Neglect of Spouse
- Neglect of Child
- Neglect of Family
- Neglect of Self
- Neglect of Friends
- Neglect of Life
- Confusion of Mind
- Guilt Complex
- Low Self-Esteem
- Bad Reputation
- Secret Double-Life
- Easily Influenced
- Tempted to Cheat
- Infidelity/Cheating
- Sexual Confusion
- Shaky Relationship
- etc.
Book Benefits:
- Has various Hobbies
- Involved in Activities
- Enjoys Time Equally
- Peace of Mind
- Master of Mind
- Sees Manipulation
- Builds Relationships
- Has/High Immunity
- Has/High Ambition
- Has/High Motivation
- Has/High Energy
- Has/High Extra time
- Faces & Lives Reality
- High Achiever
- Job more Secure
- Relates to Spouse
- Relates to Child
- Relates to Family
- Relates to Self
- Relates to Friends
- Relates to Life
- Clarity of Mind
- Guilt-Free Mind
- High Self-Esteem
- Great Reputation
- Self-Determined
- Cannot be Tempted
- Faithfulness Embodied
- Sexual Understanding
- Strong Relationship
- etc.
About your attitude while reading/studying
Videos are done in a relaxed manner for visitors. You should be concentrated when studying the book. When you sit to study the book material you should do so with at least a partially refreshed mind so that you can absorb the knowledge and be able to somewhat concentrate. Therefore you can progress in understanding the material, and you are able to disallow boredom, bodily or mental fatigue, biases, or anything else from within or outside yourself to interfere with your ability to see the relevance, significance and practicality of this knowledge to deal with the problem of sexual fixation. Ideally you would want to have the most refreshed mind and body as possible in order to study. However, considering that some of you are facing imbalance in various aspects of your lives, you might not have a considerable relaxed mind and body. Therefore try your best to have at least have a bit of peace of mind, just enough for you to get started by reading the very first page of the book, which will immediately upon your thorough understanding of it, will ease your mind further. Next, you will go onto read insight 1 (all the insights appear in bold) on page 67 of the book. Upon reading the short insight and absorbing much of it, you will need to see whether the information is true or not in actual life. Thus, by seeing and examining the information happening in actual life you are validating it. You must do this with all the insights…to compare it to actual life. The knowledge is not theoretical. It is real and practical. I want you to see it, and experience this yourself. In this way your understanding will be progressing solidly forward. You will continue reading Insight 2 after you have understood Insight 1 as best as you can. Have in mind not to read the explanation of Insight 1 which follows right-after. Skip those pages and get to Insight 2, and study it. After understanding Insight 2 and recognize the knowledge in actual life in numerous life examples, go on to study Insight 3. In this way you ought to read the entire book, without hurry. You should read in an effort to absorb the material, evaluate it, put questions to it, explore it, and see it in actual life. With understanding of every Insight your mind becomes clearer and clearer. With every understanding you will become less stressed. With every application of the understood knowledge of the book, you will be releasing yourself from lustful manipulations. Thus your mind and body will be even more refreshed and able to study more and deeper, and progress quite efficiently in your liberation. Once you have studied the 242 Insights, you can go back and read all the Insights again, along with reading/studying their explanations. Remember while you are studying the Insights, you can read the explanation that follows entirely or partially if you need clarification about the insight. Meaning, if you read an Insight and you don’t really understand what is being said, then you can read the explanation for it. The book will not be similar to vaguely mentioning subliminal advertising. No! It will be practical to such a degree that you will come to know exactly why your mind is impacted, what the tricks are, and how to nullify the influence of these devious tricks., thus leaving your mind at ease. When your mind is somewhat at ease, you can read the section named “Suggestions on reading this book” in the book, which you can read right now online at Look inside book on Amazon.com. Once you get there wait until the sampled selection of the book to appear and scroll down to contents and click on “suggestions on reading this book”.
Recognize the Value of this Knowledge Recognize the Value of Informing Others
The informative video below is from: http://www.shelleylubben.com/shelleys-videos/ Many more videos are available on her site. I suggest you listen to them, learn, and tell others. Ex-Porn Star Shelley Testifies California State Capitol
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Identify Manipulations
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Understand your mind
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Free mind to perfection
Enjoy the Intellectual Pursuit of Understanding this Plethora of Potent knowledge & to Practice its Practical Insights onto Perfection to MASTER Your MIND
Back Cover Text Many Addicted (CONVICTED JUDGES?!!!, etc.) Porn Star Speaks Out Ex: of Porn US Suicide Deaths f: 1970 Comments of Yahoo Answer users on my Answers
Reviews:
Review: “…a very sweet and earnest individual who presents a unique synthesis of theological and philosophical traditions in the service of transcending what he describes as sexual fixation. He seems very peacefully dedicated to presenting his approach, even during the several years he spent as a homeless person”- Bill Herring, LCSW, CSAT
Amazon Reviews: Absolutely Incredible May 23, 2012 By Reader Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase The grammar is fine, please respect the author. It is the knowledge in this book which is extraordinary and so easily understandable and the way it is written so peacefully and directly, so freely,which makes it outstanding. It has opened my mind and I am able to know and control my mind and have so much knowledge and understanding of how it works which is a great factor to have in life. I haven’t even read a fifth of the book and it has already changed my life and unravelled the truth from the world and many more truths. I recommend this to anybody as it is amazing, not only on sexual fixation, but most importantly, the mind and how it works. It will have tremendous impact on you and your life. Comment | Was this review helpful to you?Yes No 0 of 2 people found the following review helpful
Interesting concept, however it is tough to read – poor grammar throughout November 7, 2011 By James Ewing – Personal Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase: The book is an interesting concept, however I struggled so much with the grammatical errors that I put it down after only reading about an hour. It’s a massive book, written with heart but written like a first-run author. His next book or edit to this one may be much better. End of Amazon Reviews
One gentleman who had purchased the book and had read half-way through the book, was asked three weeks after his purchase,
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“So, how is the book?”, he responded with emphasis
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“AWESOME!”
One person who purchased the book and was very eager to see what it had to say, said the following: (his communications are on the front-page, under the comments section)
- I feel so overwhelmed and freer
- I just felt so overwhelmed and I don’t know how just in that everything was being explained and I understand.
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I didn’t know it affected me until now because I didn’t think of the sex manipulation as far as this, its amazing, I feel free as in I can control my sexual feelings and I haven’t even had any since I started reading the book I feel free because I was having trouble controlling myself for the past months and I just do not want to look at body parts of women. I guess I grew up and was manipulated by websites and everything. Thankyou on so much words in your replies and it’s an amazing book and thankyou so much. You are a genius and the next life for you will be amazing because of how much you’ve done to anybody who’s read your book and to yourself…..
thanks again! - I think i am now less overwhelmed and confused but i have felt this for the past two days recurring, it comes back and goes. I am scared that i have changed completely. I hope readers do not avoid this book because of this because there is nothing bad to avoid and this book is absolutely incredible. I am scared that I read insights with explanations and because i have not finished, that my sexuality or horniness is disappearing or going or even gone. I am so sorry to write all of this stupid stuff so readers would read because whoever is reading, I promise that this book will help you tremendously. I felt helped and understood before I read 1/10th of the book…..Thankyou so much for writing this book, you have helped me,…Thank you so much for replying with so much depth and length, you are going an amazing person and thank you. (comments come from an Anonymous person accessing this site, see replies at page-end )
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OPEN TO BLISS
The Definitive & Complete
Solution Manual to Sexual Attraction & Addiction
1. Presentation – Introduction:
This is a book written by Omid Mankoo. It is the solution manual to sexual addiction. Many are focused on sex with different intensities….some high …some low…and they don’t realize that various sexual programs and presentations use mind manipulation techniques to attract and strongly impact the mind. So, the book:
- reveals the mind manipulation techniques
- explains how the mind works (& how and why the techniques affect the mind)
- details what are the methods to free the mind from these cunning deceptions
Previous to me mentioning the manipulations, these deceptions remain invisible. Once I describe one manipulation the mind opens up and the viewer starts identifying numerous techniques used while watching manipulative sexual presentations. Back to page content
2. Presentation – Book Arrangement (30 sec):
The whole book is composed of 242 Insights , which are very short compact sentences or paragraphs. They are compact so with a little reading you get a rich burst of knowledge.
Once you read an INSIGHT, go onto reading the next insight. There is no reason to read the explanation that follows the insights, unless you need further clarification. So the whole book can be read quite fast, even though it is recommended to read it slow.
Each insight is also represented by a corresponding pictorial (a representation containing keywords and pictures) at the rear of the book, so that you can easily review what you have read.
The book deals with rich information, not fluff, so by INSIGHT 9 you’re already in the thick of the book.
Here is example of INSIGHT 1 (read just the insight which appears in bold then continue reading here) This insight is telling us, how when we are kids, parents are shy to tell us about sex. So they say little or nothing about sex, which leaves us totally unprepared. We get misinformation through our friends or through various sexual presentations, and it makes such a strong impact on us, that we feel it must be true. Thus, that early misinformation becomes the foundation of what we think sex is about. We make incorrect information to be our foundation of our sexual understanding. So our learning process is misguided from the very beginning. Back to page content
3. Presentation – Knowledge of Book (1.5 min)
The majority of the knowledge in the book is based on contrasts..such as black and white, inside out, up and down. So, if I take a white pen and write on a white background it leaves no impression on the paper and no impression on the mind. As soon as I introduce black (ink) on white (paper) there is a duality… a contrast…therefore it registers in the mind. It makes a small impact, It say’s I am here.
Now, it could be like the letter “I” or like the letter “S”. The Letter “I” which is a simple straight line, so it is a colour contrast of black against the white. The letter “S” is made up of two contrasting shapes of concave and convex ‘(‘ + ‘)’ . so when you see the letter “S” both the colour makes an impression on your mind as well as its shape of inside and out. Other things that make an impression / impact on the mind are patterns, like patterns on dresses… textures, as in texture of one material differs to the texture of another, and the list goes on. In fact there are infinite number of contrasts available in life for the mind to be engaged in and to be impacted by.
When a person is watching a manipulative sexual presentation, his mind is bombarded purposefully with innumerable contrasts coming to him multi-layered, inter-twined, and all of them more or less happening at the same time. Thus his mind is tremendously effected and impacted by the data as a whole.
He is conscious of only a few items. He says: “Yes, I know. She is wearing red, and she is showing me her breasts, so this is attracting me” But, he is not conscious of numerous other contrasts impacting his mind, and he cannot be conscious of them, because his conscious mind is overwhelmed by the numerous contrasts that he is bombarded with, which are impacting him more-or-less at the same time. Thus the strong attraction he mysteriously feels pulling him towards the screen he mistakenly attributes to instinct and just natural sexual attraction. However it is because each element of these contrasts act together to deliver the severe impact which is felt on the whole as a powerful sexual attraction. Back to page content
4. Presentation – Example of Knowledge:
So in some sexual presentations they use the genitals of a person interacting with the head of another person. This is impactful to many people’s minds. why? There are many reasons, but one reason is that:
In many cultures the genitals are considered to be low, dirty, shameful, ..hide that thing ….. and the head is considered to be the most noble aspect of the person. So we have two dramatically contrasting ideas…SHAME…&…NOBILITY. When brought together, the contrasting ideas that each represent make a severe impact on the mind. Combine this impact with sex, then the viewer experiences a powerful sexual experience. This is similar to a person who tastes sweet tea, and mistakenly thinks that the tea is sweet. because sugar is added to tea. The sugar is in the tea but the sugar is not the tea. Chocolate is not sweet. Sugar is added, and the person eating chocolate mistakenly thinks that the chocolate he is eating is sweet. He is actually tasting sugar and chocolate at the same time. Thus the same is true with a powerful mind gripping reality like the two contrasts of Nobility & Shame which deliver the IMPACT to the mind. Back to page content
5. Presentation – Afterword:
This is only one element which I have shown, but numerous contrasts are used. I have shown you this for you to see that the knowledge in the book is profound, potent, accurate, insightful and practical. There is much more to the knowledge than what I have shared. Specifically,
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you need to be able to identify most or all the manipulations,
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understand how the mind works,
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understand why the mind is affected by them
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understand how to cut these influences upon the mind
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understand how to nullify them and to know
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how to practice it until perfection.
So please do not think that you can get over sexual fixations merely by knowing the one example that I have shared. Remember the name of the book “Open To Bliss” and tell others about it, because this is a huge problem that people of every social economic status around the world are facing. People need to know about the solution. Purchase the book yourself if you really want to get your hands on the solution and get over sexual fixations. This is important for you and your partner. If you are a parent it is important for your children to have access to this freeing information. If you are single you need this book to get over sexual fixations, which will help you to interact with others in a more relaxed and confident manner. If you are married you need this information to help your partner get over their fixations. If you have friends who are troubled with fixations, this is important for you to refer the book to them. SINCE THIS PROBLEM IS OFTEN HIDDEN QUITE WELL, BY MANY PEOPLE, IT IS BEST TO MENTION THIS BOOK AND THE KNOWLEDGE IN IT TO ANYONE YOU KNOW. The odds are that they have the problem. ↑
(Additional helpful info. for those who have chosen to give the presentation to a few people)
Here is the video that goes along with the notes on that page: (Fast-forward the video to 1:56 if you want to skip my intro to the video)
6. Brief Book Description:
Sex produces life. Sex & life are sacred. The book is the Solution Manual to Sexual Fixation. It takes it from an unknown, unmanageable, passion-driven phenomenon to a known, manageable self-directed expression. It dismantles & demystifies it, nullifying its powerful mesmerizing affects & step by step, with ease & simplicity, gradually releases the mind from disguised mind manipulations, allowing the mind to finally experience simple sweet peace and bliss.
The baffling & confounding mystery of sexual addiction is explained in such elementary detail, care must be taken to not underestimate the knowledge. For once the solution to any problem is revealed, the human tendency is to mistakenly think that they knew the solution beforehand. Had they not been exposed to the solution, they would still be confounded. ↑
7. Truth Seeker’s Duty
I charge the truth seekers with this duty:
Upon seeing the potency of this knowledge do not hoard it, but share it, so the knowledge is maintained throughout the generations and throughout the earth, not through wars, not through swords or weapons, not by any force.
Promote it through discussions with those who are open-minded, intelligent, and non-violent. Share it with those who have good-will towards men and women and who are willing to hear. Be cautious who you share this knowledge with, because there are many ignorant people who mis-categorize you as spreading sexual immorality. When in fact it is about sexual morality, and about sacredness of sexuality, and the proper use of it to express love, rather than to be ruled by its passions.
In order for knowledge to be passed on we need open-minded people. Therefore encourage the development of intelligent open-minded people who consider various perspective and are completely honest with themselves and are non-violent. ↑
8. Deniers of knowledge
Those who choose to deny the validity of this knowledge without properly looking into it, which can be verified in daily life, are barring themselves from knowledge.
I have presented knowledge that is practical, understandable and verifiable for the individual who chooses to look into the matter. There has been and might always be a class of people that close their minds to knowledge. My duty is to present the knowledge to reach those people who are open enough to receive it and improve their lives. My deepest respects to you all. ↑
9. Detailed Book Description:
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A Gift of Tremendous Import:
The long-awaited advent of the solution to sexual attraction and addiction is once again dispensed by one of God’s devotees, the simple Sage Hope. This is a gift of tremendous import and magnitude, to humanity for eons to come. It is a vast treasure fashioned in the hermitage of inner silence and brought out into the open, brilliantly lighting the sight of the bewildered with its profound insights. ↑
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Open the Mystery:
The opening words “Open to Bliss” refers to the act of opening or unravelling. It is demystifying the complex, perplexing, and infinitely varied stream of data, which is presented to us as sexual attraction, to its simpler elements, to such a degree that it no longer holds any power. It is seen as child’s play (blatantly simple), and as a pitiful attempt at manipulation. Bliss is what remains when one’s consciousness has escaped this confounding maze designed for the mind, and learns to derive pleasure once again in experiencing the preciousness of his or her own true innocent childlike-self. ↑
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A Teacher’s Teacher:
Sage Hope is Self-taught, Guru-taught (Spiritual Teacher-taught,) & God-taught by:
1. Introspection, analysis, eternal questioning, investigation
2. Validation of truths in daily life 3. Application to embody the potent ascertained truths 4. Independent study of the Spiritual Teachers’ invaluable written works 5. The study of world’s revealed religious literature. ↑ .
The Work:
This is an unbiased research of the introspective Sage Hope. After in-depth study of various religions (equivalency of his study spans thrice his lifetime), after unravelling the mystery of love, and having experienced emotional fulfillment, he turned his attention to this formidable, potent, and illusive mystery, namely sexual attraction. The work represents 4 ½ years worth of exclusive study on the matter culminating in the Absolute Solution, which when understood dispels the illusions of sexual attraction to such a point that the mystery becomes as the sage says, “unimpressive.” ↑
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Essence of the Problem:
Sexual attraction is presented in perplexing, multi-layered, multi-faceted, and ever-changing forms. The onlooker is thereby mesmerized. Baffled, he loses his perspective and sense of reality. His consciousness is swept away with the stream of peculiar variegated data that bombards him. ↑
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The Solution:
A born teacher, the author, Omid Mankoo, is extremely detailed. With simplicity, he dissects and identifies each illusive element of the jumbled mass of sexual manipulation. He elucidates how each element functions to capture the mind. Furthermore, he demonstrates the reason for their potency when they combine to form, what many experience as, a mysterious unknown force, that many mistakenly attribute to their instinct or nature, and strongly but mistakenly feel that this unknown force is originating from within them. The complex jumble created by social norms, ideologies and beliefs on sex and sexual behavior, the status of persons, innocence, and more are each discussed separately, demystifying each of their effects on the whole experience of sexual attraction. ↑
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Several means of grasping the material is employed, including:
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242 Insights & Insight Briefs Table:
With minimal reading, an ample burst of rich nourishing knowledge is delivered to the reader, by means of 242 condensed (Sutra) Insights, each sentence of which is a compacted form of many sentences. Insights are also listed in a table to be used as reminders or for ease of reference. The recommended reading method is to read the first insight, then go onto reading the next insight, so on and so forth until the book is finished. If at any point one needs further clarification of an insight, they can read the explanations available underneath the insights. In this manner the book can be read fairly quickly. Even though, I insist that you must read all the insights slowly and then go back and read each insight along with each explanation. have in mind, that after you have understood that the knowledge is practical you cannot just read it, you then apply it to your life,an slowly set yourself free. ↑
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Explanations of Insights:
Explanations below Insights are to assist those readers requiring a guiding hand to walk them through to fully grasp the sometimes intricate details of some Insights. ↑
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234 Pictorial Reminders of Insights:
These are semi-picture and keyword representations of the Insights enabling the reader who has understood the insights to be reminded of them by viewing the Pictorial Reminder. In this manner the entire book can be reviewed again fairly quickly. ↑
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42 Listed Examples:
In order to assist in clarifying the intended meaning even further, a host of 42 examples are given, which are also listed in a table for ease of reference. Numerous other unlisted examples abound throughout the text. ↑
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Comprehensive Index (as a quick summary of book):
The fastest method of study, for those with little time, is to read entries under a specific heading within the comprehensive index. The comprehensive index contains a myriad of entries spanning sometimes three sentences long. Reading them is equivalent to reading a summary of the book, covering virtually all of the key points. ↑
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10. Why I Wrote the Book
My natural behavior is to share, since I see all beings as part of one community. Each of us is equal as any other being. I am not higher than you, nor below you. I am equal with you. So, if I have knowledge I would want to share it.
I began researching into sexual attraction because it was a puzzle to me and I wanted to figure it out. I had thought of sharing it freely by the internet. The problem is that anyone could then take my ideas and copyright it and ban me from sharing it. Plus, others may present the information not very clearly, not precisely. They may choose to sit on the information and not share it, and distribute it to few, and far in between for a very high price.
It was crucial for me to ensure that the everyday person, from any class of society whether rich or poor would have the ability to access this information. The only way I thought possible, given my limited budget was to publish a book. In this way, they would have proper guidance, and rich information at their fingertips.
I hope that answers the question. Back to page content
Omid Mankoo SH…
A degree of calmness is required to seek & digest knowledge.
I’ll Help
I’ll help you to to Master lust and for you to help others to help themselves and for them to help others, thus allowing the knowledge to be passed from generation to generation forever.
You have all the knowledge available in one book for you to feast over and empower yourself. You have me, as if I am right with you, guiding you through the book. I have also have posted here general questions, so people can be guided into their initial questions. This website also has two other private areas. You can access these private areas if you own the book and then proceed to ask me about them.
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A private area enabling book owners to have detailed discussions with me and with each other.
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A private area for book owners to discuss matters totally privately one-on-one with me.
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NOTE: I considered keeping the discussions public so everyone can benefit. Then I realized that many people would be satisfied with tidbits of information that they would get, however essentially they would be getting scraps. What is in the book is exceedingly profound, potent, precise and concise. I don’t want people to be satisfied with scraps, I am in favor of them gaining access to the whole enriching and empowering knowledge and not to be satisfied by 2% spread here and there.
I am able to help you with all the information, and I will be assisting you. However I want you to know that many of you, in fact all of you can master the information and totally overcome. That is why I also encourage you to talk to each other. Since this site is free. Meaning I have not paid anything for it, it has some minor limitations. Have in mind that you have a limit of each talking 10 times within the same question/response. but once you run out , you can obviously continue the conversation by starting another question, and informing the person whom you are discussing of your intention to do so. a good way is to give your responses numbers. meaning if you find that you cannot add more responses, then start a new question and pose the same question with a number 2 after it. Many of you who apply yourselves will MASTER the information and apply it to your life MASTERING YOUR MIND, thus TOTALLY OVERCOMING LUST. AND YOU WILL BE PASSING THE INFORMATION ONTO OTHERS, FORMING CLASSES, SCHOOLS, ETC. EVEN THOSE WHO HAVE NOT MASTERED THE INFORMATION ARE ENCOURAGED TO TEACH , PROVIDED THAT THEY ARE NOT THE TYPE OF PERSON THAT HARMS OTHERS. THIS KNOWLEDGE IS NOT DIFFICULT TO UNDERSTAND. IT IS SIMPLY LOOKING AT THINGS TRUTHFULLY. SOMETIMES THE TRUTH GOES AGAINST SOME OF YOUR LONG HELD BELIEFS THAT YOU MISTOOK FOR BEING TRUE. THE DIFFICULTY IS IN YOU FINDING THE COURAGE TO BE COMPLETELY HONEST WITH YOURSELF, AND NOTICE YOUR OWN BIASES, AND SOCIAL BIASES, AND LIES, AND MANY OTHER BIASES, AND THE COURAGE FOR YOU TO WANT TO LIVE A TRTHFUL LIFE, AND NOT LVE BY FALSE-HELD BELIEFS.
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This is an interesting perspective. I would like to read more in depth about the thoughts and basis of this belief.
Thank you.
This is one of the most arrogant undertakings I have seen in book form. A complete and definitive solution to sexual attraction? Really? You may well have some good things to say, but you present it as the end-all solution. If the book is written by the same author as wrote this website, I truly hope there was a good editor, since English grammar and correct word usage are simply lacking.
Alan
It is important for you to know that I respect you.
Knowledge is sought by those who see the possibility of knowledge existing.
Those who do not see the possibility of answers, close themselves off to knowledge.
I am the writer, and editor of the book. I have also written this website.
I am aware of people who are generally negative, I am addressing this page to the wise, to those with open minds, non-judgmental, those with intelligence free from biases and prejudices, the free thinkers, and the visionaries of the world. these are the people who can understand the message, and reap its rewards, and help spread the word, in an effort to educate others, to free themselves.
To Alan,
Give the author a little bit of leeway regarding the grammar !
By the way, it is a book on Sexual Addiction , not “A complete and definitive solution to sexual attraction” .
Thanks for that supportive remark.
it is, however, a solution to both attraction & addiction.
This is so because, addiction has its roots in attraction.
If the content is good what does it matter if the grammar is not?
Thanks for your positivity.
I have no argument with Sagehope’s propositions. I have no criticism for imperfect English. If we want rise above our own issues and limitations, choosing a path of tolerance and understanding is essential.
In my struggle with sexual temptation, I find the Bible to be an immense help. Its ancient wisdom gives me timeless perspective on my nature, the reasons I struggle and the spiritual answers to my issues.
http://purity.isfor.us/
Hi Whatifiresist, yes tolerance and understanding is essential.
Yes, the Bible is of immense help. However, all too often I have seen people read quite hurriedly and miss the amount of knowledge present in the Bible (Torah & Jesus’ teachings)
This overlooking of course is not limited to those who study the Bible. There are many who overlook the depth of various teachings around the globe. Even in relationships, and casual or serious conversations much is overlooked. This leads to much misunderstanding.
There is nothing wrong with sexual attraction. It’s built into us as organic beings. Sexuality is (at its best and ideal) a form of love, though it’s true that since there is a lot of pleasure associated with it (this allows us to express love by pleasing each other), sometimes the pleasure is remembered and the love is forgotten. Anyway, we are *supposed* to be sexual. We are sexual at our core, and this aspect isn’t limited to the specific social arrangements that are supposed to make sexuality “okay.” If you attempt to “weed out” sexuality (or even specifically sexual attraction to others) from your being just because some 2,000-year-old collection of exotic texts tells you it’s unholy (read: un-whole-y), you’re doing a major mind-job on yourself, at *best* suppression of your libido, confusion over who/what you are, and anger at yourself and/or guilt (which actually *is* unholy) for having thoughts and emotions that you don’t understand you should be having. It’s impossible to believe everything the Bible says anyway ( http://www.humanistsofutah.org/2002/WhyCantIOwnACanadian_10-02.html ), so don’t feel obligated to believe it when it says that sex is somehow “bad”..
Hello Respected Anonymous
I am happy that you decided to make your thoughts known publicly.
Yes, I agree there is nothing wrong with attraction, including sexual attraction. However, some venues manipulate people by misrepresenting sexuality, and sexual attraction, they misrepresent relationships. This has a massive negative and damaging effect on society, which generates problems not only for the immediate people involved but also for their children and extended family and friends. Many manipulators take advantage of attraction and manipulate people for their own gain and people’s loss, and that is not okay.
It is not built into us as you think, and that is part of what I have discussed in the book. Many things that you think are natural are actually generated by sources outside of you, which guide your thoughts, feelings, and behaviour towards actions which benefit the manipulators. I admit that it appears as though the person is thinking and feeling it on their own, however in many cases this is a deliberate manipulation by those who seek to generate profit by moulding feelings and behaviour. Talking on this point with you might take a whole book, meaning it will be very long. So I will leave it at that. you would only know where I am coming from if you have access to the book.
I agree about love, and love is written in the book.
I am not attempting to weed out sexuality, or sexual attraction, I am demystifying it. A lot of people think it is just natural, so when they are manipulated into behaving sexually, against their own will, they still think its natural. You see…people CAN be manipulated when the victims cannot determine the source of the manipulation, nor understand the reason for the effect of the manipulations, nor understand how the methods of its operations are. I am bringing to light all of the above, so the person is no longer being sucker punched, meaning s/he will no longer feel as though some invisible force is pulling them towards behaving sexually. They no longer have to mistakenly feel that they are NATURALLY being driven to act sexually, even against their will. Once the methods are revealed the mystery and illusion is broken, and the person can be free to act in anyway, even sexually on their FREE WILL rather than being coerced into action.
At the very face page when you open the cover, I have addressed Sex as holy. I say in effect that LIFE IS PRECIOUS AND HOLY, and Life comes from sex, and so SEX IS PRECIOUS & HOLY. (I did notice that you used the word “if” at the beginning of the sentence, so it is good to know that you were not boxing me in automatically.
There is no suppression of the libido, it is rather that…
There is no undue manipulation of the libido by outside sources
Very good about addressing guilt, Yes I have addressed that in the book, that guilt creates chaos in your mind. It is a negativity that causes further confusion, when your ability to be clear thinking in the midst of manipulation is vital. So I encourage being aware, rather than riddled with guilt, so that they can spot the manipulations.
I studied many religions. Each religion I studied, I devoted my time only to the study of that religion. when I progressed in great depth of understanding and understood its core message after years of indepth study, I would go on to study other religions. The tremendous and complete knowledge on the nature of the mind and spirituality which I gained was from a scripture (“Bhagavad-Gita As It Is” by A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada) (Bhakti = Love, Vedanta = End of Knowledge, highest Spiritual Knowledge) that is 5000 years old, but the knowledge is billions, and billions of years old. I must give credit where credit is due. That is why I mention and acknowledge the sources. In addition, I do not limit myself to just believing something written now, or in the past, whether it is scientific, or religious. I question, test, and validate the knowledge in daily life.
hi omid,
i met you at the (store name withheld) shop a few weeks ago. you were explaining about your book open to bliss
i went to buy a copy from foyles but they have run out.
would be good to get a copy and also meet up again to play music.
hope you are well… i saw you in (place withheld) yesterday when i was helping with (charity withheld) but we were dridving away so couldnt say hello.
anyway keep in touch and hope you are well.
best
Foyles on Charing cross only caries two copies o most books , including mine. so if they ran out you could just order the book from them and they have it shipped to the store in 10 busines days.
I keep checking comments regularly. i dont know how this comment i missed for such a long time, hehe.
I haven’t read the whole book, but from what I have read a lot seems transferable to other addictions. You have to be in the thick of an addiction to truly understand what it’s like, which it appears the author was. This is why most treatments for drug (and likely sex) addictions simply do not work and are not even reasonable.
Yes, you are correct Alex. Since, I deal with the mind in this book, by describing how it works and how to master it, one can use the information for freedom from all kinds of mind manipulations and influences upon the mind. However for other addictions the afflicted also need additional accurate, insightful, and freeing information about the the medical, physiological, and other aspects of their specific addiction. Yes, I was in the thick of it. I was intensely fixated, I was very powerfully influenced. Thank you for commenting Alex. Spread the word, which reminds me… I allow links in your comments.
Please help me I’m 17 I need to stop looking at women how can I buy the book online and have it online I need it immediately please ill do anything please I hope your book will prevent me from ever looking at anybody other than my love
Yes, ( i am saying this first, because it is very important) Once you get the book in any form, physically, online, or kindle… remember to go immediately to chapter 1, insight 1 and read the insight that appears in bold, then go on to read insight 2, and so on and so forth, without reading the explanations, unless you need to for clarification. this way you read the entire book, and then you go back and read the insights again along wit their explanations. Yes the book will help you tremendously. I am here to help guide you if you have questions. by the way sex is not be thought of as something wrong or bad, and the information in the book is nothing to be ashamed of having, it is information that should have been shared with you long ago, however people were just not aware of it. Just like how parents to prepare children by telling them about cigarettes, alcohol and drugs, and how not to be tricked by persons who will offer them these things for free in order to addict them, similarly this information on sex, about addicting people, or fixating people on sex should be shared with people so that they are prepared for it and not take misguided information as real.
Have in mind hat the book also deals with sexual attraction. so if you decide to have the book in your possession you can always say you have it because you are interested in learning how sexual attraction occur. In either case, once you understand what has been happening you will lose your shame for being fixated. you will not only get out of fixation, but also come to understand that people are tricked into fixation because they don’t know they are being mentally tricked.
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I ALSO THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR VERY ON-POINT QUESTION. Since many people are afraid of being branded sexual addicts, they would like to be able to read this information as discreetly as possible. I adeed to the front page this information about “KINDLE CLOUD READER” so others can immediately know about it. I also invite everyone to understand that this is information that can be read, to empower you to help others. so it does not have to always be related to you. thus lose your shame of it. another item that is important is to not call yourself an addict. it is very negative and people brand you,. thus calling yourself being fixated on it , can be done with ease. but in either case it is no body else’s business, and you work on yourself. you can tell your spouse or partner if they are going to be understanding. if they are not going to be understanding then there is no point in telling them then you have to do the work on your own.
I am only 17 and i cannot lie or keep things from my girlfriend because something bad happened with me lying at the beginning of our relationship and she is paranoid and still cannot trust me i cannot keep things from her and she is so upset and hurt and was so close to leaving me because i keep looking at other people and telling her and as much as i try its like another part of me wants to look and looks i am going to buy it as soon as possible i hope it helps i am so paranoid that i look when i consciously dont want to but my eyes go there for a glance and i dont know if its looking or not because i dont want to and i dont know what to do because i cant lose her over this because she keeps getting hurt and i dont know what to do im in so much pain
Hello its me again the 17 year old, i bought your book and am reading the whole thing I’m on insight 40 i think but I’m reading everything i thought of going through all the insights first but is it too late? i feel so overwhelmed and freer but i am still scared if my subconscious is still bad, thank you so much
It’s very good that you got the book. no its not too late. the core of the book are the insights. I designed the book to be read in such a way that with minimal reading you get Much of the Knowledge. OK. Since you have begun reading, I want you to give me some feed back on what you feel about the information that you have read thus far.
When you say you fel overwhelmed, what do you mean exactly. overwhelmed by what?
when you say you feel freer what do you mean, if you could say it more specifically it would be better.
do not be scared. you need to be aas calm as possible to be able to really grasp what is being said in the book.
YOU HAVE READ A GREAT DEAL ALREADY. The reason I wanted you to immediately start reading insight 1 and then next and the next, etc. was so that you could see pretty quickly that this stuff that i am talking about IS POTENT STUFF. and that you start to see the puzzle taking shape and you get to see that there may just be a way out, because what you have read so far is lowing the lid off of the whole illusion. It’s totally unmasking it. I wanted you to immediately start reading so that your mind is somewhat put at ease, and therefore able to see the potential of tis book actually being the solution, (Which ofcourse I k wo it is) Therefre you notice a window of hope, and you feel more positive and more relaxed and therefroe you could read and study with much more clarity and depth opf concentration.
Now I want you to go to the section which says “suggestions on reading this book”. and read the section that says, “the main and best way to read this book.”
because what you need to do, is to read and insight
understand it as best as you can, if you do not understand it read the explanation.
then examine it, think about it to really understand it, put questions to the information, meaning test it. if it is seen by you as true then taht is good, if you are not sure about it, then test it :
I want you to see the information working in actual life, so that by experience you will see that it is really true. and in those situations which you think it is not true, to look more indepth in thsoe situations to determine what is going on, and see if you can make sense out of it. if you need help with that, after yuo have tried, you can write to me and let me know. and I will help you out with it.
YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THE INFORMATION, AND SEE IT WORKING IN DAILY LIFE IN NUMEROUS SITUATIONS. then you know the information to be real. once you know that it is real, you then have to apply it to your life.
Since you already got the book and are busy reading it you do not have to give me feedback on my email request which I asked you earlier. keep up the reading, and more importantly, understanding it by questioning and evaluating it, and even more importantly recognizing and seeing the knowledge happening in daily life in numerous situations, and most importantly applying the knolwedge that you have found to be true in actual life to your own life, thus reaping its benefits, and slowly but surely freeing yourself. I don’t know exactly why, but one of my replies to you apears underneath the other ones, even though it was one of the first replies. anyhow. it is not too late, to just read the insights. read the explanations only if you are not clear on what is being said. this will help your mind. because you would only have to read the bold writing which are the insights, and you would get much information with minimal reading. ofcourse it is great that you read the early insight explanations because they go into some pretty potent stuff. about your subconscious: you will slowly but surely learn how your mind works and learn to master it. You are learning how specifically others have been ticking your mind, using multiple ways. you will learn their methods, and you ill master it, you will master your mind, and you will master nullifying their deviously clever tricks to such experitise that you will laugh at any efforts to manipulate you, because you will be so good at spotting it and nulifying it taht you will laugh at it as if it is child’s play (a pittiful attempt at manipulating you)
The kindle version of the book does not have the following words which appear on the bottom of each chapter page. Thus I wil give them to you here. This is a reminder on how to read the book.
Be silent, honest, slow, calm, understanding, attentive, objective, clear thinking, systematic, logical & precise. Pause, reflect, examine, discover, vaildate, in life, truths & untruths hidden from biased minds due to lust, pride, zeal, etc.
I have briefly described each word and idea by video on http://sagehope.wordpress.com/1-2 scroll down . it appears just below the EXPLANATION.
I know you are eager to go through the book to read it and thus fre yourself entirely from this problem. however your situatino is like if they dipped your head and hair in a mixture of warm chocolate and bubble gum, and then you attempt to wash you hair by using the sink to dump only over your head and try to clean it. much can be cleaned that way, but also much will be left, especially the bubble gum. and also much chocolate will be really still in he hair.
you need to slow down in your reading and see if the information makes sense, and see examples of itr daiy life numerous examples so that you by yourself see that it is indeed valid. and you come to know how the mind works, and how it is influenced in various situations. without you doing this , the knowledge will remain abstrct and theoretical in your head, without relating it to reality, and you will nothave a full grasp of it. you need to go over the knowledge in the insights slowly, and evaluate the statements, and validate them in actual life. thus the knowledge becomes real instead of theoretical. and this is how you MASTER THE KNOWLEDGE. You need to do this in order to undertsand how exactly to identify and get rid of the illusions that impact your mind. so the words are there as a reminder to do this. and when you do, it will be as if you wash your hair in the shower with shampoo, and then warmed your hair in ho hot water thus warming the bubble gum, and taking one’s time with each bubble gum with one’s fingers and taking each bubble-gum off one at a time.
there are several situations here
Take it easy on yourself. usually when talking to a person that is stressed I ought not to use a lot of words. their mind just cannot grasp what is being said. but picture me just talking to you. and read it as if i am just talking to you. I am speaking to you out of compassion. Plus I feel a lot of other people will learn also. You do not have to read all of it at one time. read a little bit that your mind can handle. I want you to make a feedback response of me of what you understood I was telling you. There is no point in me talking to you, if nothing is getting to you. thus I ask you to tell me what you understood. so read a little bit then write a feedback of what you thought I am trying to tell you, and save it as a draft in one of your email accounts. read a little more and add to the draft. do this untl the whole letter is read and you have finished the letter to me, in your own email account. then paste that entire feedback from in a reply, and you can also continue conversing with me about furthering your understanding into helping you in your situation.
Ok, so basically because of the bad thing that occurred at the beginning of the relationship, 1. she has reason to mistrust or not to have total faith in you. ok. That is understandable.
when you look at other people and telling her, well I understand that you are being completely sincere and honest wit her. you do this because you really want to connect with her, so you share every thought or most thoughts that roam your head. even the one’s that you don’t fully understand. That is very beautiful. I t would be good if your girlfriend understood what you were trying to do when you are sharing your thoughts. However she like many other girls/women do not realize what you are doing and only take what you say about your roaming eye, or your noticing of the attractiveness of some women, or the possible sexual thoughts that run through your head when seeing them as just simply your interest in those people and lack of interest in your girlfriend,. And so, thee women feel less and less attractive when you say that, because they mistakenly think that if the girlfriend is attractive enough the man would not be interested in looking at any other woman. I want you to know, that you if you were ending your time with anything else, any omen would still be wondering why you are not spending time wit them. for example you could be playing video games, listening to the radio, drawing or whatever other activity that you can think of , she can get it in her head that you are paying more attention to that activity than her, and then she will get upset, and might decide to leave you based on that. (not all girls/women are like this, but many are like this.
2. you seem to be too dependent on your girlfriend. meaning if she left you seem that you would be tremendously hurt. This puts you in an imbalanced situation. so that even in the relationship, when she is actually with you, your mind is in turmoil, because you can’t mess up, you can’t see yourself doing anything incorrect on purpose or even by mistake. so you are not comfortable, you are in a sort of a hell.. its good for you to recognize that as good as it is to be with her, your state of mind and emotions are not secure. She could leave you for infinite reasons. example, she might not like your neediness, she might be interested in another guy, and she finds a way to break-up with you. or just tell you , point-blank, I want to experience other people. It would benefit you to see things realistically. So you are an emotional and mental wreck. I would suggest not telling her about your roaming eye. she misunderstands much of it. it often happens that I am walking down the street and something moves, and i look at it. it could be a car, a leaf or a pretty girl. it does not matter. the motion captures the attention of the mind. and you should be able to notice your mind at work , and understand what it is attracted to and why. so just because you see a beautiful girl does not mean that you are interested to see her sexually and that is why you looked at her.
This issue involves many situation. For example if you are in a room that has 10 lights with 10 different switches to turn them off and on. Someone says please turn off the lights. so you turn off one light, and someone else might mistakenly say, well your solution did not work,because the room is still lite. you cannot go and think you have done it incorrectly, and turn that one light on again, and try to turn off some or all of the other lights. you have to turn off all the lights. one at a time or all at once if you can. in the case that you are facing, there are several issues that complicate the matter that are part of the problem and you have address each one. so I am saying that I will address each one, one at a time. and I don’t want you to think, Oh that does not help much. (like the turning off the lights) take a few small problems and put them together and you have complicated problem. so solve one simple problem at a time, and soon enough you will have finished the entire problem. communication involves talking and listening an attempt to understand. If you attempt to talk with her, and she does not understand your words and meaning, then COMMUNICATION HAS NOT OCCURRED. MIS-COMMUNICATION HAS OCCURRED. THIS HAPPENS A LOT IN VARIOUS RELATIONSHIPS. that is why when people first marry, many get into all sorts of arguments about how things should be done around the house, and many other issues. So anyhow, because of the mental and emotional state that you are in , you can’t think straight. I WANT YOU TO NOTICE THIS, AND RELAX. You cannot continue like this, you will go crazy and injure your mind. This is too much stress to put on your mind. relax. by the way your girlfriend is not more precious than you. your girlfriend is not more precious than an ant. your girlfriend is not more precious than any other living being. What happens if a few months from now she wants to be with someone else, and her excuse will be, my heart says so. what will you do then? could you handle it? would you be able to remain balanced. positive and upbeat? this will be the subject of my second book. emotional fulfilment. but the core information for that I have put in this first book, “Open to Bliss” So once you get the book, you can also go to the rear of the book in the index, and look under the word love” and turn t the page to read the sections which speak on love”
3. you are young, you have been told since childhood girls are pretty, precious soft, and just so different than boys. your mind is fascinated by them. they are something you are not (you think this) . you see countless movies which glorify the emotional and sexual interaction between men and women. you see how hard the man falls for the woman. and what he does to try to be with her. you are tremendously conditioned by these movies. it builds your sense of reality. This coupled wit the idea of insecurities about yourself, builds a dynamic situation that is something like this: I have not had a girlfriend, and for so many years I have felt separate from others, i felt low, and not good about myself, not belonging, no one really understand me, how can someone love me, if they could only see inside me, etc. etc. so the first person that shows any interest you cling to and hold on for dear life. this person has shown interest IN YOU. its really not about them its about YOU. you are holding on for dear life because you want to feel precious, and loved and valuable. and since you have not felt that about yourself, and since no one else has shown that to you for so long, there is this deep cavern inside you, and you want another to see you and love you completely, Ahhhhhhh. Now of course some of the things I have said might not be directly relating to your situation specifically, because many of the things I said I could not possibly know to be true or not true, since I do not know you that well. I am, however, stating them because some other people will feel parts of my communication to be tremendously helpful to them.
Let me know about parts or all of what I am talking about. start with one small part. and work from there to try to understand. First you need to refresh your mind. just take some orange juice. sit and relax a bit. breathe in and out. you need your mind to be able to figure things out. and you cannot get anywhere if your mind is stressed out to the point that you cannot think straight. am I right? do you see my point. then when you are sufficiently refreshed and relaxed, try to make that your habit, to be in that state of peace throughout the day. because you want to establish your mind in a positive and relaxed state. if you see a girl that is wearing something beautiful or if she just looks beautiful. there is nothing with admiring that. just as if you would be admiring a tree. no need to have sexual feelings towards her, but this might ocurr because of how your mind is programmed to respond to what you see. however initially there was no sexual thoughts,. it was some thing beautiful to look at, that’s all. If sexual thought come, then the book will be describing to you very specifically hat is happening and how to not only understand it but how to nullify it and master the mind not to be sexual,especially when you really don’t want to. anyhow. relax your mind. and any questions you have let me know. ( I talk in different ways, so do not take lightly if I communicate much less than this)
Give me feedback what you understood that I was saying.
Thankyou so much. Don’t worry haha my girlfriend couldn’t leave me when she wanted to because she loves me so much and I love her so much too so don’t worry
I just felt so overwhelmed and I don’t know how just in that everything was being explained and I understand. I know the illuminati but I didn’t know it affected me until now because I didn’t think of the sex manipulation as far as this, its amazing, I feel free as in I can control my sexual feelings and I haven’t even had any since I started reading the book I feel free because I was having trouble controlling myself for the past months and I just do not want to look at body parts of women. I guess I grew up and was manipulated by websites and everything. Thankyou on so much words in your replies and it’s an amazing book and thankyou so much. You are a genius and the next life for you will be amazing because of how much you’ve done to anybody who’s read your book and to yourself. I am going to sleep now so goodnight and thanks for the quick and long reply, if I haven’t answered anything you’re seeking just reply and let me know and I’ll answer
thanks again!
I am very happy that you recognize this book as amazing. it truly is, and I am happy that you are making positive progress. I have not mentioned the word illuminati in the book, but I could see how since that word on various online sites has been mentioned in a negative light and as controllers, or manipulators thus, I could see how you are making a connection between illuminati and the word “manipulators” which is mentioned in my book. By the word manipulators, I mean any single person or group of persons who seek to manipulate and take negative advantage of people. Yes, you are most welcome about my replies. hehehe (about the genius remark) hehe yes indeed the information is phenomenal, eye opening and mind freeing, however I Owe everything to the Creator. Yes indeed the knowledge in the book is very effective for those who choose to read it without bias.
Hello, its me again 17, I understand things you are saying I think. But I am confused and i felt overwhelmed but did not know why, maybe because of my subconscious looking again and me not being able to control it. I am really scared because you said not to read the book as if true or untrue but to validate, but i think i read it out of stress most of the time and believed everything to be true. I think i am now less overwhelmed and confused but i have felt this for the past two days reoccurring, it comes back and goes. I am scared that i have changed completely. I hope readers do not avoid this book because of this because there is nothing bad to avoid and this book is absolutely incredible. I am scared that I read insights with explanations and because i have not finished, that my sexuality or horniness is disappearing or going or even gone. I am so sorry to write all of this stupid stuff so readers would read because whoever is reading, I promise that this book will help you tremendously. I felt helped and understood before I read 1/10th of the book. Do not worry about my girlfriend because she loves me and I love her and she is not the type of bad person at all. Thankyou so much for writing this book, you have helped me, I still do not know if i should read insights only and no explanation unless i dont understand because i feel like this way is helping me, but I am in year twelve and i have a sac soon and exam in three weeks and im finding it so hard to study and do homework now that this has overwhelmed me somehow. I don’t fully know what i feel free from, maybe just the bad behaviour or bad things. Thank you so much for replying with so much depth and length, you are going an amazing person and thank you. I think I might read the insights only for now because of low time, thank you again, i am sorry if i have not answered questions, i am still trying to work out why my mind is so busy or upset or i do not know. thank you
yes, it is normal for you to look again. because the influences upon the mind are many. therefore you must discover them all and deal with them according what I say in the book. the state of coming and going of attraction and arousal is normal for the beginner. but what you have to do is to understand clearly that stress disallows you to think precisely. it is similar to guilt. I speak about guilt in the book. the same you must think about stress. stress, guilt or any negative emotion or negative thought disallows you to think clearly. therefore you as an intelligent person who recognizes this, you must try to be as stress free and guilt free as possible to be able to look at what you are looking and discover why you are looking at it. So, if you are looking, that is the moment you have to be intensely concentrated on what are you exactly looking at discover why you are looking at it. no problem. Mhh I suggest for now, because you have your exams, to take care of your exams. reading only the insights will help you as far as time. read the explanations of the insights if you need to understand the insights better. when you finish reading all the insights then you can go back to read all the insights with all the explanations. but for now, if you can concentrate on your exams, and if you feel sexually aroused you can relieve yourself as you would normally, and then focus on your studies. when your studies are over then you can best focus on this book material. No problem, do not worry about not answering. you are very busy. do not worry about looking or no looking, and arousal coming or going. thousands of millions of people have this problem. so let it come and go, and study. don’t let it bother you too much.
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Not sexuallyarousedanymore, it’s okay I think, I just don’t want to look at another woman in a bad way again, I keep thinkingbad thoughts and can’t stop about something bad or little that happened then I have to tell my girlfriend because I can’t keep anything from her and it relieves me but I do not want to hurt her, I’m in such a bad situation
It is good that you are honest with yourself.
as far as the arousal , whether it happens or not there are several reasons. and one of the reasons has numerous types. let me know if you need to talk about this in a more prvate setting so others cannot access it. The reasons for the thoughts occuring is explained in the book. but I will briefly explain here on it. the mind remembers unusual things. it is simply the how the mind functions. so it is not the case that everytime you purposefully want to think that. it is that those thoughts are so unusual that the mind can’t help but remember them. This of course is mixed in with pleasure. thus the mind is powerfully affected by numerous sources, and so you are not able to figure out what exactly is the cause of you thinking the thoughts, and that is why you cannot identify any one single element that is causing you to remember these thoughts. This is true of the times that you never want the thoughts, or partially want the thoughts. All this is written very exactingly in the book. if you have trouble finding the section that is derals with this subject. you can look in the index. and look under thoughts or mind, and look at the subheading material to see which passasge relates to waht you are exactly lookig for. but when you are reading the insights, you will come upon it anyhow. Also you can look at the “insight briefs table”. you will find it by the table of contents. then you can glance the insights in one word sentences and find the one that deals with your spoecific issue. I am also able to talk to you in more detail in a more private setting. Just let me know if you would like that.
Please give me any advice to help, I keep being so paranoid or stressed or just a full mind and I cannot be truly happy I almost was and then I thoughtabout something bad that had happened with my subconscious mind and I keep goin throughthe cycle of feeling horrible to okay to better than okay and back to stressful and paranoid and upset, I don’t know how you’d help me when I don’t even know why this is happening, maybe it’s just needingto tell my girlfriend because I am waiting for her reply last time I told her about my subconscious and that I did not want to look earlier today she understood and I felt so good so maybe it’s this thoughtthat I need to release,I don’t know, I’m just typing what I’m thinking, I’m sorry for invading your whole websitewith my posts, thank you
Look in the “comprehensive index” look under “Guilt. This is answering your question very precisely. even though I mentioned it in my past communications with you.
You need to calm your mind. you are adding stress, when there is no need to add stress. Stop telling your girlfriend about your subconscious thoughts. you are working on yourself. and now is not the time to add stress to yourself when you are trying to work on yourself.
not all the thoughts that you think are coming from you. they are coming from being mentally manipulated. so knowing this, you should throw away guilt, because in a majority of the cases of thoughts that come up, you don’t want to think of them.
So, first thing is, you have to have a more relaxed mind. your mind is filled as you said. therefore do not add more stress to yourself by telling your girlfriend everything your mind thinks. relax. when the thoughts come, do not feel guilty that you have thought them, because you did not. it appears as though you did, but these thoughts have started from outside and though you can generate and think of them now on your own, they had their origin from outside. its like a virus that infects you. the virus is not you. these thoughts are not you. so if and when they occur they do so because of many reasons , but the main reason is that they are unusual, therefore they are memorable, and that is why you remember them. that’s all. its like skydiving, you cannot forget skydiving because its unusual. so don’t worry if you think unusual sexual thoughts, just realize they are memorable. Of course the subject of canceling these thoughts are written in detail i n the book. however for now, I am sharing with you a quick way of thinking so you can handle the thoughts by understanding the simple fact that they are memorbale so you will not be surprised by their appearance in your consciousness.
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Do not worry about taking over the site with your questions. these are good questions, and many others will be learning from them. Therefore your questions are welcome.
This website is here for you, to help you. it is not here to be a just a non-functioning pretty picture.
It is here to function to guide you to master your mind, to master sexual desire and the inceasant thoughts that seem to consume the mind. Understand that stress is tremendously damaging to the mind. The mind can only handle so much. To save yourself you must not allow yourself to be stressed. breathe, eat good food, rest, and when unusal thoughts come do not be etressed about them. understand thath it is normal for themind to remember unusual things. Try to forget a pink elephant. you can’t because its unusual. but when you understand why your mind is focusing , and remembering the item, then you will not be impressed. then the your mind will be more and more aware of the trick of using unusuality to become memorable, therfeor eth mind is no longer impressed as much from this trick, and it can let it go, and not keep focusing on it wonderign why he has thought of it. now he knows, and he is unimpressed.
Thank you, I hope this helps me, you see, my mood always determines what I think, even from feeling sick from eating because i dont feel like eating anymore makes me feel bad or have bad thoughts about anything, i noticed that and am trying to stop it because now i know one of the reasons why, it is my emotions partly or mostly, i think
Now we are getting more detailed. very good. I will contact you and direct you to a private setting (password protected)where we can go into detail. You can confirm that you received the info by answering this message / or email. Thus far this conversation of ours has been and will continue to be of help to many. You yourself, or I can post questions of yours that are not specific here so others can benefit also. but our main discussion will be in the private area.
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I am writing to letting the readers of this website/blog know that the person who approached me on the 19th May 2012 (On the 19th he made the purchase because s/he was eager to access the information) the record of initial talks which you see above this message entered into private session with me, on the 22nd. s/he said their life had changed for the better and tremendously helped by it and that every day they are getting better. I state that they have a smashing (great) start on understanding and applying the knowledge in the book. The person also stated that he is telling his friends about the book.
I would like to get this for my boyfriend, because I think he has a similar problem, what would I tell him when I give him the book?
Its best not to call him an addict, because that has a bad connotation. The most you can call him is fixated, meaning strongly focused on sex. You don’t have to call him anything actually. I suggest you read the book, and have him read it too.
You can tell him:
the book shows how sexual attraction occurs or
the book shows the mind tricks used in various sexual programs
shows how the mind works and to free the mind from being manipulated
You can give him the example which I give in my presentation about shame and Nobility. If you cant tell him, you can play my video for him, so he can hear me say it, which gives him a powerful example (a glimpse) of what is instore for him in the book, and what is happening in sexual seduction.
You can store it by the computer. so he can access it anytime.
And to rid him of the shame associated with being sexually focused, reading the very first page helps to ease his mind about that. I have a video of me talking about that also on the “insight 1″ tab on the website.
What is important is how to read the book. Don’t read anything before page 67 unless its the “Suggestions on How to Read the Book”, and or the “Title & Front Cover Description” or the very first page. It wastes valuable time. when he is interested, or you get him reading a bit, you want to have him read the insights so he sees that its rich information, with minimal reading, and so he quickly gets interested in the rich informative potent information. you don’t want to have him read the introduction which says nothing about the information. the introduction I use a s a method of telling about my background. so we dont want to bore him.
You immediately turn to page 67 which is chapter 1 , and read INSIGHT 1 which appears in bold. Then go onto reading INSIGHT 2, so and and so forth without reading the EXPLANATIONS that follow each insight. However he and you can read the EXPLANATIONS only if you need clarification about the INSIGHT. You don’t want to scare him with the massiveness of the book. and that’s why we want to share with him quickly how the book is to be read, so he understands there isn’t much reading at all.
only 242 insights. minimal reading.
once you read the insights then he and you can go back and read the insights along with their explanations.
ONe last important thing. he and you are not to underestimate what you are reading. because I have explained it so simply that one can easily mistakenly think that they knew thiss stuff already. but that is because any good solution to a problem seems obvious once mentioned. because solutions make sense. anyhow by for now.